導讀:如今很多家長會盲目跟風、一廂情愿給孩子報各種興趣班,但是這樣造成的影響有想過嗎?
Too many after-school clubs and expensive hobbies for children can damage families, a study claims.
一項研究稱,孩子過多參加課外俱樂部、發展昂貴的業余愛好會影響家庭。
Cramming in extracurricular sports, music lessons and other activities often causes fights between parents over who shuttles the kids about and the costs involved.
拼命參加課外體育、音樂課和其他活動往往會引起父母之間的爭吵,因為他們要在孩子的事情和相關費用之間四處奔走。
The youngsters themselves can end up exhausted as they race between home, classes and after-school clubs, while time spent as a family is cut.
當孩子們在家庭、班級和課后俱樂部之間奔波時,他們最終會筋疲力盡,而一家人在一起的時間就減少了。
Experts say the resulting bad atmosphere in the home can put marriages at risk and have an adverse effect on children’s well-being.
專家稱,惡劣的家庭環境會給婚姻帶來風險,并對孩子的健康產生不良影響。
A study by York University in England found 88 percent of primary-school-age kids have organized sessions four to five days a week.
英國約克大學的一項研究發現,88%的小學學齡兒童每周有四到五天要上課外課。
Nearly six in 10 have more than one in an evening — with overly competitive parents getting the blame. One mom said: “You think everybody else is doing it so you should do it too.
近六成的人晚上至少要上兩個課程,這些都是過度競爭的父母造成的。一位母親說:“你認為其他人都在這么做,所以你也應該這么做?!?/p>
“Some people do things every night. They’ve got Brownies, football, tennis and karate. There’s a lot of peer pressure.”
“有些人每晚都有事情做。他們學烘焙,足球,網球和空手道。有很多來自同輩的壓力?!?/p>
Study author Sharon Wheeler said: “Parents hope activities will benefit their children. Our research shows the reality can be different.”
研究作者莎倫.惠勒說:“父母們希望孩子從課外活動中受益。我們的研究表明,現實可能會有區別?!?/p>